Time Given, Hope Ignited

In the photograph, there is a boy—young, thoughtful, his shoulders squared in that way that suggests he’s carrying more than his own weight. His name was Devante Burris. He was a student at Lincoln Hall, the residential school where I once worked—a place meant to offer young men in the juvenile justice system something most had never truly been given: a second chance.

This Christmas, I find myself reflecting on his story.

Devante had a presence about him. Serious. Focused. The kind of look that told you he was thinking beyond the moment in front of him. He spoke about the future. He told me he wanted to join the military. For him, it wasn’t just an escape from the past—it was a path toward purpose, discipline, and belonging. A way forward.

Wanting to give that dream every possible chance, I connected Devante with two men who understood service and sacrifice firsthand: Colonel T.J. Farrell and Captain Pete Sciabara—both longtime friends from my Xavier High School days. Neither hesitated.

Between them, they gave Devante something rare: time, attention, and respect. Long conversations filled with honesty, encouragement, and lived experience. They didn’t talk at him; they talked with him. They spoke as men who had worn the uniform, led others, and understood exactly what Devante was reaching for. They treated his aspiration not as a fantasy, but as something worthy of serious consideration.

In doing so, TJ and Pete honored what we were taught at Xavier—that the Holy Spirit asks us to show up, to use our talents, and to place them in service of others. No spotlight. No obligation. Just presence. Just care. Just the quiet belief that one life, given a little guidance and dignity, is worth the effort.

After those meetings, Devante sent me a thank-you note. It was gracious and hopeful. You could feel it in his words—he believed a door had opened. For the first time in a long while, the future felt possible.

But life has a cruel way of interrupting hope.

Not long after Devante was discharged from Lincoln Hall, he returned home. And then—suddenly, senselessly—he was shot and killed. We still don’t know who took his life. His murder remains unsolved. No answers. No accountability. Just an empty space where a future was supposed to be.

There’s no way to wrap that in meaning. No neat conclusion that makes it okay.

What remains is this: Devante tried. He wanted something better. And for a moment, he believed he could reach it. Colonel Farrell and Captain Sciabara helped ignite that belief by simply showing up, and I will always be grateful for that.

Devante Burris mattered. His story matters. His life mattered.

May his soul rest in peace—and may we never stop working toward a world where young men like him are given the chance to grow old.

Published by Ed Kowalski

Ed Kowalski is a Pleasant Valley resident, media voice, and policy-focused professional whose work sits at the intersection of law, public policy, and community life. Ed has spent his career working in senior leadership roles across human resources, compliance, and operations, helping organizations navigate complex legal and regulatory environments. His work has focused on accountability, risk management, workforce issues, and translating policy and law into practical outcomes that affect people’s jobs, livelihoods, and communities. Ed is also a familiar voice in the Hudson Valley media landscape. He most recently served as the morning host of Hudson Valley This Morning on WKIP and is currently a frequent contributor to Hudson Valley Focus with Tom Sipos on Pamal Broadcasting. In addition, Ed is the creator of The Valley Viewpoint, a commentary and narrative platform focused on law, justice, government accountability, and the real-world impact of public policy. Across broadcast and written media, Ed’s work emphasizes transparency, access to justice, institutional integrity, and public trust. Ed is a graduate of Xavier High School, Fordham University, and Georgetown University, holding a Certificate in Business Leadership from Georgetown. His Jesuit education shaped his belief that ideas carry obligations—and that leadership requires both discipline and moral clarity. He lives in Pleasant Valley.

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