The Path

We imagine careers — and life — as linear.

As if the path is supposed to look like this:
Study → Get hired → Get promoted → Lead → Retire.

But real life doesn’t run in straight lines.
It loops. It stalls. It breaks. It rebuilds.
It asks you to bet on yourself again… and again.

And then one day — often later than you planned — it clicks.

Somewhere along the way you hit that Jimmy Buffett moment:
“I’ve proven who I am so many times
The magnetic strip’s worn thin.”
You realize you’ve checked the boxes, earned the titles, fought the battles…
and still feel the pull to chase something new.

That’s not a crisis. That’s renewal.

The leaders who allow themselves to begin again
create space for others to do the same — and that’s where innovation, loyalty,
and genuine humanity show up.

In business AND in life:

Career

  • Miss revenue at 33? Rebuild the Go To Market strategy at 34.
  • Hire wrong? Own it, reset the scorecard, hire better.
  • Launch and flop? Keep the lessons, lose the shame.

Life

  • Marriage ends in your 40s? Heal, rediscover yourself, love again in your 50s.
  • Kids leave home? Turn the quiet into purpose — not emptiness.
  • Lose faith in a dream? Trade it for a better one, not resignation.
  • Wake up at 67 and feel that spark again? Follow it — it’s still yours.

Winners aren’t the ones who never fall.
They’re the ones who rise — and bring others with them.

So start at 30.
Fail at 33.
Reinvent at 34.
Rebuild at 44.
Catch fire at 54.
And yes — still find your passion at 67.

Because life isn’t a ladder — it’s a series of doors.
When one closes, you don’t freeze.
You turn, you knock, you walk.

Just don’t stop building. Ever.

Published by Ed Kowalski

Ed Kowalski is a Pleasant Valley resident, media voice, and policy-focused professional whose work sits at the intersection of law, public policy, and community life. Ed has spent his career working in senior leadership roles across human resources, compliance, and operations, helping organizations navigate complex legal and regulatory environments. His work has focused on accountability, risk management, workforce issues, and translating policy and law into practical outcomes that affect people’s jobs, livelihoods, and communities. Ed is also a familiar voice in the Hudson Valley media landscape. He most recently served as the morning host of Hudson Valley This Morning on WKIP and is currently a frequent contributor to Hudson Valley Focus with Tom Sipos on Pamal Broadcasting. In addition, Ed is the creator of The Valley Viewpoint, a commentary and narrative platform focused on law, justice, government accountability, and the real-world impact of public policy. Across broadcast and written media, Ed’s work emphasizes transparency, access to justice, institutional integrity, and public trust. Ed is a graduate of Xavier High School, Fordham University, and Georgetown University, holding a Certificate in Business Leadership from Georgetown. His Jesuit education shaped his belief that ideas carry obligations—and that leadership requires both discipline and moral clarity. He lives in Pleasant Valley.

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