You Know What Needs to Be Said—So Say It

I’ve learned the hard way—there comes a point when holding things together just isn’t worth it.

Meryl Streep once said, “Let things fall apart—stop exhausting yourself trying to hold them together.” She was right. Some things aren’t meant to last. Some people were never meant to stay. And forcing what’s already breaking only ends up breaking you.

Let people be upset. Let them misunderstand. Let them judge. Their reactions are not your responsibility. You don’t owe explanations to people committed to twisting your truth.

And when someone shows you who they are—believe them. Stop justifying, excusing, or hoping they’ll become who they promised to be. Watch what they do, not what they say. Patterns don’t lie.

And when you see bullshit—call it out.
Stop shrinking to keep others comfortable. Stop letting people hide behind titles, egos, or power. That includes bosses, leaders, institutions—anyone who forgets that leadership is a responsibility, not a shield from accountability. If you have a platform, a skill, a voice—you have an obligation to use it. Not just for yourself, but for those who can’t.

I’ve been silent before. I’ve carried the weight of unspoken truths, hoping things would just work themselves out. But silence doesn’t fix anything. It just eats you alive from the inside.

There is more ahead—more love, more clarity, more peace. But only if you’re brave enough to make space for it.

So ask yourself:
What are you still afraid to say out loud?
What are you clinging to that’s already let go of you?
What truth are you sitting on because it makes others uncomfortable?

Say it.
Let it go.
Call it like it is.
And step into who you’re actually meant to be.

Published by Ed Kowalski

Ed Kowalski is a Pleasant Valley resident, media voice, and policy-focused professional whose work sits at the intersection of law, public policy, and community life. Ed has spent his career working in senior leadership roles across human resources, compliance, and operations, helping organizations navigate complex legal and regulatory environments. His work has focused on accountability, risk management, workforce issues, and translating policy and law into practical outcomes that affect people’s jobs, livelihoods, and communities. Ed is also a familiar voice in the Hudson Valley media landscape. He most recently served as the morning host of Hudson Valley This Morning on WKIP and is currently a frequent contributor to Hudson Valley Focus with Tom Sipos on Pamal Broadcasting. In addition, Ed is the creator of The Valley Viewpoint, a commentary and narrative platform focused on law, justice, government accountability, and the real-world impact of public policy. Across broadcast and written media, Ed’s work emphasizes transparency, access to justice, institutional integrity, and public trust. Ed is a graduate of Xavier High School, Fordham University, and Georgetown University, holding a Certificate in Business Leadership from Georgetown. His Jesuit education shaped his belief that ideas carry obligations—and that leadership requires both discipline and moral clarity. He lives in Pleasant Valley.

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