I’ve learned the hard way—there comes a point when holding things together just isn’t worth it.
Meryl Streep once said, “Let things fall apart—stop exhausting yourself trying to hold them together.” She was right. Some things aren’t meant to last. Some people were never meant to stay. And forcing what’s already breaking only ends up breaking you.
Let people be upset. Let them misunderstand. Let them judge. Their reactions are not your responsibility. You don’t owe explanations to people committed to twisting your truth.
And when someone shows you who they are—believe them. Stop justifying, excusing, or hoping they’ll become who they promised to be. Watch what they do, not what they say. Patterns don’t lie.
And when you see bullshit—call it out.
Stop shrinking to keep others comfortable. Stop letting people hide behind titles, egos, or power. That includes bosses, leaders, institutions—anyone who forgets that leadership is a responsibility, not a shield from accountability. If you have a platform, a skill, a voice—you have an obligation to use it. Not just for yourself, but for those who can’t.
I’ve been silent before. I’ve carried the weight of unspoken truths, hoping things would just work themselves out. But silence doesn’t fix anything. It just eats you alive from the inside.
There is more ahead—more love, more clarity, more peace. But only if you’re brave enough to make space for it.
So ask yourself:
What are you still afraid to say out loud?
What are you clinging to that’s already let go of you?
What truth are you sitting on because it makes others uncomfortable?
Say it.
Let it go.
Call it like it is.
And step into who you’re actually meant to be.